Find your way out….

Find your way outThat was me, two years ago, who had no knowledge about the work that I do today. Sometimes people are afraid to change and often prefer to do what they have been doing for so many years. I wasn’t an exception until I was hit by a wave which took me off the part of an ocean where I loved being in, and found stranded on the shore I never knew before. It was a new experience for me, I never even thought in my dream to be in such a situation like this, not at least for what I did in life. But I guess that’s how life is. My heart was sinking and just when I felt that all the doors were shut and my journey has come to an end, That’s when something happened which taught me that It is not the end but the new beginning.With not much in hand to do, I found creatures, some different, some known that lived with the same plight and shared the similar fondness to the place where they came from. I kept wondering, here and there, looking for a solution, hoping to sail back somehow.

Fortunately, I met a few of them who shared similar interest and soon we became good friends. I had all the time in the world and an opportunity to explore. I had two options there, either to continue living in disgrace or to make my life more meaningful inviting changes that may lead me to  a new direction. As expected, I chose the latter. I started to explore and evaluate as to what this given condition or a situation has to offer. My pursuance started with too many ‘ifs’, what if this does not work out, What if I am setting myself for another failure, What if this expedition is not fruitful, What if……?

The days passed by and while I was still in the process of exploring, I saw my friends making their way out to sail again.  For a moment, I felt disappointed for having no one around me,  but at the same time I was happy for them to receive the opportunity and start again.  In the end, each of us, have to be on our own.

This entire situation turned out to be a blessing in disguise and hopes began to flourish again. I did not stop there and kept my search engine on and on…… The process of exploring and taking up new activities to find my way back helped me discover new talent and learn new skills which could have only increased my chance to sail again. Although, this time, I did not limit myself to the desire of sailing back towards the same direction, where I came from. This newly found me was ready to take up challenges and survive new waves of life.

Finally, my perseverance got paid off and the attributes that I had developed got me into that I feel proud to be a part of it today. Although the direction has changed, but I am living with this newly found passion, had I been limited earlier? I could have never had a chance to be here today.

For all the readers – This is a small snippet from the chapter of my life, where I was the protagonist. Many a times we are drawn towards the situation or a thing we never want in our lives. But the fact is, You cannot expect things to fall in place all the time. Sometimes it deviates to an undesired degree. The point is, that you cannot simply sit and do nothing about it. You may evaluate and wonder what did bring you into such situation, but at the same time, think about confronting it and building new avenues in the process which can make you a better person or perhaps may offer you something which you may not have even dreamed about. This has happened with me and can happen with any of us. Don’t just live with it, because you have all the power to change it and make it better.

On a different note: If you are a voracious reader, you may want to lay your hands on some of these. As a reader, I ensure to make my commute purposeful, I prefer feeding my mind with different reads. I am personally a fiction lover and I am fondly in love with Jeffery Archer’s work.  I deeply recommend his latest work on ‘Clifton Chronicles’.  This series began in 2011 and perhaps still continuing because I have not finished 2015 edition – ‘Mightier than the sword’ (don’t like to read the last page first). You may want to lay your hands on the entire  ‘Clifton Chronicle Series’